How can I be sure my wedding remains personal and unique?
I'd like it to be memorable to us and others
Give me some ideas for assuring it will be about us, not just a bride and groom.
Eliminate all the white noise. Make sure to avoid adding gimmicks and sideshows that are just filler and will distract the bridal couple from enjoying one another and their guests. When all is said and done, the best part of your memories will be the moments you tuned into how at ease and happy your partner was feeling that day.
On the other hand, odd or unique games, skits, or activities that spell out painfully unique hobbies and specialties of the bride or groom will make everyone smile, laugh and remember that this is about a special pair of persons about to undertake a life of embracing that uniqueness.
Plan to serve one dish or a dessert that is Mom's specialty, made by Mom, or at least by her recipe. You will need to make a special arrangement with the caterer, since not prepared in a certified setting, it cannot be offered nestled among his or her food items, due to liability.
Give your maid of honor and best man real things to take charge of for you. Their role is an honor and should be more than symbolic. And plan a thoughful surprise gift for them to let them know that your choosing them was not a whimsical decision.
Do something special to acknowledge your parents. It is really their day! Let them know you are aware of their role in making you an appropriate partner for your fiance. Consider separating, to go ask each set of parents to take the first servings from the buffet, and then escort them before you rejoin one another to dish your own food or invite the other guests to do so. Everyone will remember you displaying how you honor your parents.
The more considerate you are of others on your wedding day, the more you will shine. People remember that.